Be Kind & Love Your Spouse

Choosing to be unfaithful to your spouse is consciously choosing the karma to be alone, feel lonely & controlled by desires. Choosing to be unfaithful to your spouse also sends a clear message to your children not to respect you and also to grow and 'do the same'. Choosing to be unfaithful to your spouse is sending a message that you have no honour, integrity & your promises mean very little. Don't go that way.

"If poverty & financial problems has a cause, it must be stealing or deception. So you know the eventual results NO MATTER HOW ROSY IT SEEMS NOW."

Be honest & kind to your spouse. This is the one person that has shared all your ups and downs. The one person closest to you after your parents... be honest, open & sincere with your spouse at all times. They want the same things as you. So give them what you want to receive from them.

"People are very creative to cover up ill motivations. Very well 'trained'. It would be better to retrain skillful beneficial actions to others."

Reward your spouse with love, gifts, kindness because you have not been the easiest person to be with. If you hurt your spouse, you have hurt the whole world. Being capable of hurting someone so close to you, means you are capable of it to anyone. Hurting your spouse purposely makes possibility for happiness in a partnership more and more difficult. Why? Results resembles causes always.

If you want a spouse. Choose to be kind. If you don't want to be kind, don't even consider having a spouse. Why join with someone to hurt them? Your spouse is the best person to practice humanity with. Why? kindness & patience starts AT HOME WITH THE PERSON CLOSEST TO YOU.  

~Tsem Tulku Rinpoche

*messages by Rinpoche on twitter